Sure, Absence Makes The Heart Grow Fonder… But So Do These 3 Texts To Send A Guy That Will Put A Smile On His Face, And Have You Running Through His Mind All Day!
We all know what it feels like to miss someone, and this can actually be a really great thing!
Think about it… if you really like a guy, it feels kind of good to miss him, because then it’s exciting when you get to see or talk to him again!
So what can you text a guy to make him miss you when you’re not around? To make him sincerely pumped to see or talk to you again?
How to drive a man wild via text
Before I give you some specific texts, let’s break down the dynamics of missing someone a little bit more...
So what creates the feeling of missing someone or something?
It’s the contrast between experiences, isn't it? The contrast between having something that you like or enjoy, and then not having that thing that you like or you enjoy.
“Missing” is the contrast that allows you to know one from the other.
For example, the reason why you know something is big is because you've experienced something that's small. (Wink wink... just kidding!)
Or, you know when something is hot because you’ve experienced something cold. You get it.
So how does this relate to a guy missing you?
Well, in order to make him wish you were around, he really, truly needs to feel what it’s like to not have you around – which means that the golden rule of texting a guy to make him miss you is not blowing up his phone with texts.
Listen, if you're constantly texting the guy, if there's no reprieve, if there's no breathing room between the feeling of being with you and not being with you, then there's no room to create the feeling of missing you.
And you’re amazing! So. Let. Him. Miss. You.
Okay, so now that we’ve got that straight, I want to share with you the three best texts to send to a guy that will make him miss you.
BEST TEXT TO SEND TO A GUY #1: The positive praise text
As human beings, we all love feeling good about ourselves. We love to feel validated! So a sincere text with specific praise for the guy you’re sending it to will make him light up immediately.
What you send will depend on your specific man, but maybe it goes a lil’ something like this:
- “I just drove by the beach where you taught me to surf. I love how fun you are!”
- “You are so damn charming. Just thinking of you is putting a smile on my face ”
- “Had a great time last night. Love how chivalrous you are! Men like you are a rare breed.”
And, uh, BTW, you don’t have to know how to spell chivalrous… your phone will auto-correct it!
Any text of this variety is sure to make him want to see you again, because it shows you genuinely value and appreciate him.
BEST TEXT TO SEND TO A GUY #2: The thoughtful, supportive text
One of the best parts of being in a romantic relationship is that your partner will remember little things that are important to you, things that maybe not even your good friends will remember.
So whether you’re in a committed relationship with a guy yet, or are on your way to it, you’ll earn you tons of brownie points with him if you send him a text that’s really thoughtful and shows you paying attention to the things he cares about.
For example, you could text:
- “Good luck with your presentation today… you’re gonna crush it!”
- “Have blast with your buddies this weekend!! Make some epic memories :-)”
- “Go Steelers!!!”
In all of these cases, your guy is doing or focused on something that doesn’t involve you, but that you show sincere support for.
Showing that you care about his job, his friends and his sports fandom will make him want to hold you close and not let go!
Oh, and side note: You may think it’s a little silly or childish to support your man’s sports teams, but if he has a burning passion for a particular team, then trust me ‒ your support for this love of his will go a looong way!
BEST TEXT TO SEND TO A GUY #3: The sexual tension text
Another awesome perk of engaging with someone romantically is the flirtation and the sex!
So when you guys are apart, try sending him a sexy text that will ignite his desire for you and his desire to most definitely see you again soon.
Feel free to get as creative as you like, or try something along these lines…
- “Woke up hot and bothered… it’s a shame you’re not around ;)”
- “Can’t stop thinking about what we did the other night… it’s making me want to do it all over again.”
- “I’ve been naughty today, and probably deserve a spanking… if only there was somebody here to do it?”
A kissy 😘, winky 😉 or devil-face 😈 emoji is always a nice touch too!
And bottom line, sexy texts will get his mind thinking about all kinds of fun activities that he's gonna get to do with you, and that will drive up the “missing you” factor big time.
Remember, absence makes the heart grow fonder…but a well-played text will definitely make him miss you!
There you have it! Three of the best texts to send a guy to make him miss you like crazy.
So give one a go – the positive praise text, the thoughtful text, or the sexual tension text… and I promise you won’t be disappointed!
And now I’d love to hear from you! What are your favorite texts to send your man that you know get him pumped to see you again? Leave a comment below!
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